Ramon and Dinner

Sometimes Ramon just drives me crazy with his insane obsession with lecturing and barking orders at the kids while literally shooing and complaining about our dog every five seconds. It takes so much effort for me to even make dinner and all I want is one nice dinner where we could have normal family conversations. Little silly things that I treasure. And he has to ruin everything with his control issues. He would go on and on about how RJ needs to do this and why doesn't he do that and his constant "just do it" repeated over and over. So freaking autocratic it drives me up the wall. The kids are such now that they are becoming belligerent and indifferent to his complaints. He doesn't realize that this is not the way to get our children to listen. Neither one of the children want to linger at the dinner table because he makes it downright uncomfortable. Jalen spends all of 15 minutes and RJ sits for about 5 on a good night. It's horrible and I just want to cry because of it.